HEART by SDMHI
·
Nov 18, 2024
You made it, mama!
I’m so proud of you!
It’s 4am, quiet and calm as you
slip silently into the future.
No fanfare
No weeping and wailing
Just you and I
in peaceful silence
punctuated by your last ‘Ah-Ah’
gently calling out before expiring.
Was that your
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Nov 12, 2024
It was early on a Sunday morning. A feisty grey-haired elderly lady approached my pharmacy counter, wanting to collect medication for her husband who had just been discharged. I checked the electronic prescription system and informed her, “M’am, your husband’s discharge medication is not ready yet. I
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Nov 4, 2024
Trigger Warning: This post touches on themes of suicide and loss. Please stop reading if you're not comfortable with this topic.
I can only imagine
The pain your mother felt
When she saw you
Her beautiful baby girl
With porcelain skin
Now a young lady
Whom she knew
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Oct 28, 2024
Last week, I shared a post breaking down the biopsychosocial model—you know, the one that encourages us to treat patients as whole humans, not just walking diseases. The feedback? A lot of “Yes, Vic, it sounds all fine and dandy, but how do I actually do this in real
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Oct 21, 2024
Modern healthcare is moving at lightning speed. With clinic consultations that sometimes feel shorter than a Netflix intro, we’re squeezing diagnosis into ever-tighter timeframes. Doctors, overwhelmed by tight schedules, often rely heavily on diagnostic tests to guide their decisions. And while those tests are incredible for revealing structural
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Oct 7, 2024
There was a woman who was unmarried and didn’t have many visitors. I was asked to “help her with her pain and swelling.” When I went to visit her, a nurse warned me that she was difficult to engage. I thought, “Of course she’s difficult to engage; it’
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Sep 30, 2024
Behind those scrubs
Zipping from one room to the next
From tragic to devastating
My scrubs reminding me that
Their sorrow is not supposed to be
Mine.
Speaking with one family to the next
From devastated to desperate
Their tears reminding me that
My sorrow is nothing compared to
Theirs.
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Sep 23, 2024
The sun is a disorienting halo, the skies are bluer than most days in July, and 103 year old Mr. H won’t see it. According to his helper, he will only see the last wisps of amber sunset disappearing into the nighttime when he awakens for just three hours
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Sep 16, 2024
The concept of empathy has been swirling around in my head ever since a quiet afternoon at my parents’ house, where a simple ad on TV caught my attention. Believe it or not, TV still exists—yes, even with ads! It was part of a campaign by the Health Promotion
Keep reading →
HEART by SDMHI
·
Sep 12, 2024
Why We Need to Listen, Not Just Hear
Keep reading →